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Old 11-23-2015, 06:03 AM
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Some of us were sexually abused as children.
That would be a yes, and directly connected to the next thing:

For some of us, sex may be the only way we learned to connect with people. Our sexuality may not be connected to the rest of us; sex may not be connected to love - for others or ourselves.
And since sex was something to be used, then it led to this part:

Some of us may have gotten involved in sexual codependency: not paying attention to what we wanted, or didn't want, sexually.
Having run around in circles on that little track from the age of about 12 to maybe somewhere in my early 50s (don't even know for sure when the last time was, and haven't much cared, honestly), I'm here:

Our sexual energy may be blocked.
And honestly, this is soooo far down on my list of concerns. Maybe if I was younger, I'd care more? Maybe in a different situation, it would matter? All I know is that it's not even on my radar, not even a blip.
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