I also know what you mean about the loss of how special it is to wake up again sober. It fades in time.
Hmmm...maybe it's not happening for you guys at the moment because your addiction is fighting a rearguard action trying to sell you the idea that sobriety is boring and that a return to a fun filled life of controlled drinking might be possible?
Personally I still enjoy waking up sober. Honestly
Some days are harder than others, sure, but I really do enjoy my sober life.
I really hope you guys will come to see it the same way too
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