Step 12 , take a deep breathe stay calm and be still , you feel you were abused on this forum by members who did not agree with you offering to sponsor people , you ''allowed'' yourself to get ''upset '' and '' angry '' you need to learn to allow others to share '' what they think is right '' and learn to consider their viewpoint .
Best advice I have ever had was ( Imagine a table with two people sitting opposite each other , place a teacup on the table and ask one of the people to say ''which side is the handle on ? '' they will say it is on the right from where I am sitting . Ask the other person same question which side is the handle on ? they will say '' from where I am sitting it is on the right '' give others the benefit of the doubt , live and let live ) .
Step 10 every night followed by Step 11 every night , anger justified or not has no place in the program of Alcoholics Anonymous it is a learning program and we can start again anytime . Good luck big hug .
Stevie .
sobriety date march 2006 .