Originally Posted by
FireSprite 
The lies he told me flat-out, to my face, have always been the hardest part to heal. I can't even express how ridiculously transparent & obvious his lies got to be. "That's right. Santa & a leprechaun strolled right in here & took money out of my wallet. That's what happened. I am SICK of being questioned about every little thing!" Then he'd storm off to drink, because he was SO angry at me & the "way I talk to him".
Yep. Exactly the same type stuff. Amazing how much they a become alike. This has been where I get the most help. Realizing that we are experiencing, not only isn't unique, but all very similar in so many ways.