You can go to ANY open meeting of ANY 12-step group and you don't have to share during the speaking part. Meetings up here, anyway, say at the end that if you need to talk to find someone after the meeting. We also have requirements here for clean/sober-time in order to chair or secretary the meeting, so they might be a safe bet as someone to grab. Or just listen to someone that you like what they're saying. As much as I have talked down meetings during my 11 years in the rooms, you are surrounded by people who are living on one side of this brutal coin and I would say you're more likely to find people who "get it" there than anywhere else.
Good luck!