I'm going with my lawyer, whatever will be will be. This isn't going to be my last fight with him. He will owe me alimony till he turns age 66. I also need a garnishment. Also, I signed off of survivors benefits in lieu of a life ins policy of a certain amount that is decreased each year by the life expectancy chart. He Has a life insurance policy that will not meet that requirement at age 65, 70, 75, 80.
For my own sanity, I need to give this over to someone else.
I fought with him last year for 7 months over the pension division. He wanted to use his net income and my gross income. I can't go through this again.