Red, you're right, and everyone else that responded is right. I do know what I put down was confusing. I sent him a check today for an overpayment of alimony $76.52 for the month of Feb. I am calling my attorney today to see how long I should wait to file for a motion for contempt of court, and also to verify that my portion of his entitlement is just that. That it is my entitlement, and I would not have to refund any excess over the alimony payment.
He was "slack" and "arrogant" with getting the documentation in to divide my pension. That was not my fault. I just can't deal with this person. I was so willing to just send him a check to get rid of him, but he kept insisting I got 2 retroactive checks, and not one. If he wasn't making up numbers I would have let it all go.
They just don't ever leave.