He sure is...all the time! I had issues with my ex up until she was finally 18 years old and he was able to slink away and not be heard from again.
One day, I got an email from my daughter with a link and when I clicked on it, it was a mug shot of her dad after being arrested for assault and battery or a family member (his wife). I am SOO glad I got out of that situation, even though he never was physically abusive to me.