Hi dandylion, yes he is her dad. We are actually in court on Monday for maintenance but it is on consent! He thinks he is superdad I'd say because of it but I had to make it legal and get the order as he is constantly hanging money over my head and threatening to stop paying for things if I don't play nice but at least this way he has to pay without the threats!
I really do feel like he has died. He has been gone 6 months now and I still feel terrible. Some days I'm fine and then it just hits me like a tonne of bricks I feel like I will never be right again and I'm really dreading Xmas this year. I'm sure he will be partying like a 17 year old though!!