Tangled.....what has happened in the past is history. One can become very old waiting for history to change itself.
Even God cannot change history.
Your future is another story. Your future and that of your child is in your hands.
He is manipulating you....and, you are falling for it....he KNOWS you will fall for it.
Like the others have suggested....just turn your phone off at night and stay away from social media.
His new attendant can take care of his needs.
dandylion