Originally Posted by
glitterdeva 
We can watch them all day long like babies, but if they want to get high, they will summon all of the powers in this universe and get it.
Give yourself a little break, you need you more now than he needs you. If he wants to get high, he will no matter what you do or don't do.
THAT is a lesson I learned the absolute hard way - they will get high no matter what.