Donny, if you choose to live your life making out with strippers, getting smashed every night, maybe you should leave your wife and do her a favor...If you really loved her, why would you cheat? I really think you are making a lot of excuses so you can keep living your "out of control life"..You don't seem like you really care much about your marriage..You should be single that way the only person you hurt is yourself..You have no respect at all for your wife..