susane1408,thank you for welcome. Its nice to hear from other people who have the same situation as myself. Like you I am always continually looking for ways of coping with and improving our life together. Reason for coming here. I have read and still reading all the power threads and the past posts. There is so much information here. Its impossible to get through it all.
nocellphone,thank you for the web link. I have clicked on it and will do some research this evening. I have found that the alcoholic disease affects everyone who comes in contact with it. Finding peace and serenity in ones life is a big plus. Thank you all.