TT, it did come to walking on eggshells, if I did mention a behavior that was upsetting she would completely throw it back on me with the worst name calling. I always let it go "because she was drinking" in the beginning she was somewhat remorseful then it got to be where she tried to convince me I deserved it.
Unbelievable. My friends and family would be horrified it they knew what I put up with. I was like the frog in the hot water.
So now that she has cut me out of her life completely I am mad that I wasn't the one who walked away first.