sorry it is long
xAH wanted to come over last weekend and move his stuff from the barn so I gave him the times I would be working so I did not have to be here. I put a thick wire around things I did not want him to take and just left it like that. Well he took wire cutters and cut the wire and took the tiller(his mom and step dad (If I go by that I will not have anything-overinvolved parents) gave it to us and I did not put it on the court list and neither did he so by default it is mine.)
Then he did not show up the next 2 days to get the junk(tools engines etc) out of the barn. Now he wants to come over this weekend to get it and my lawyer wants me here. I may have someone to come over here if his schedule permits but that may cause an issue(my daughters old softball coach - he does these sort of things.) so I may just call 911 and have a standby come over but both times my xah called them they wanted it to be quick and they do not want to keep coming out. (deep breath, sigh)
Well that is the frustrating part, I'm just ticked right now. Son talked to me about a week ago and told me Xah was going to cancel his insurance and he needed some insurance.
Back story - a year ago Xah gave son keys to my(without my knowledge but I was driving a different car at the time so ok) suv to drive and son one day got real nasty with me and I took the suv away and I drove him to school and told son he needed to find a ride home because I was working. Well son complained to XAH and Xah had 16 yr old son buy a blazer and Had it out with me on how awful a parent I am. He put the blazer in Sons name only.
Well since things are final I have gotten a call from my daughter saying he couldn't afford her insurance and she needed a car(away at college-Car was given to her by his family -very nice of them but again I had no say). I told her we will figure it out but I can not afford to insure her.
Well last week son talks to me about insurance and says dad can't afford it so I tell him I'll look around. Well because it is in his name only and is registered in his name and he is 17 he has sky high insurance, unless he puts the vehicle in a parents name and is just a driver on it then it becomes a little more affordable. But I still can not afford it and explained it to him, why it is high and that I cannot afford it.
Well son comes over tonight for dinner and brings up the insurance again. Says he is driving without insurance. Well I broke off my car and house away from Xah's insurance and because I am refinancing the house I did not move it so I can still see his insurance. (I am moving it as soon as I close next week.)
Son Has insurance. Xah is telling him he is driving without insurance and because of multi cars being insured it is a lot cheaper than what I was getting quotes for. Son got a little bit of an attitude and said he wanted insurance and we use to be able to afford it why not now.
XAH is not teaching him anything. I am not going to hand him money for insurance. He is working a job wants to be emancipated Son can pay for it.
aside that I am enjoying my piece, I get a little lonely but I am working a lot so I don't have time to brood.
Thoughts.
