Wow I am sorry for all this and not surprised. Honey, many people live double lives. It becomes pretty obvious when they are gone all the time, missing flights, scheduled vacations etc.
I hope those whom are choosing to stay because financially its good will read your story, and get that the price one pays can be ones life to stay with an addict - money be damned. It is the root of all evil. Simply put there is no price for sanity and peace of mind.
Praying that you get a clean bill of health on Tuesday. Best wishes for your future which now looks bright that you have left this toxic mess.