It was more like, stop drinking or you're moving out lol. Seriously though, she always had my back when it came to drinking in the sense that she would no longer put up with it after she saw I could stop if even only for a week. My habit became intolerable at all levels once she was able to see the sober me she wanted nothing to do with the drunk me ever again. There is a chance I may not have made it out of the mental hold of addiction if I wasn't married to her. It gave me the courage and strength to make it the distance because being married to her I had no choice but to keep trying. She simply would not tolerate it any longer. I am better for it and I am grateful to her for it.