Originally Posted by
Wheresmyunicorn 
I don't yet have a sponsor but have been going on my own and reading a lot. As for AH, he has been going to meetings voluntarily - he generally drinks at home so hasn't gotten into any legal troubles as a result of the alcohol ... yet.
If you are an alcoholic yourself, I would say, leave him to it and focus on your own journey. You know that serenity prayer. He is the first sentence; you are the second sentence. The third sentence will keep you sane and focussed and doing what you need to do.
He'll either get sober or he won't, when he chooses.