Originally Posted by
healthyagain 
There is a very fine, thin line. The problem is, if not treated, in many cases, the person will present as difficult, negative, undermining, lying, manipulative, well an a-hole basically. So, it really does not matter. And a mental illness should never be an excuse for certain behavior. And why would you or your kids put up with it? And till when?
Good point.
I keep trying to find reasons to accept it and make it work. I keep hoping the new medications will level things out. The reality is I just need to understand that I don't have to do this unless I want to. Not sure if I want to.