Hi Jeni;
I hope things work out for you personally.
It sounds like he really is back in full-blown addiction.
and not having to worry about making a living just allows him to keep it going longer.
I want you to know I support you in whatever choice you make at this time
It's progress that you aren't "fixing" the moving for him and I agree with FG,
this is a good start at taking your power back in a tough situation.
I meant no judgement in my earlier post