So what if he comes back, drunk or starts drinking, and gets physical like he did before when you stood up to him?
I have to say I'm with Anvil.
Your stuff is packed--why not move back in with your folks for awhile
and let Mr. Wonderful do his own thing.
No amount of money is worth this, is it Jeni?
In an earlier post you said you felt you wanted and deserved more.
I agree, you do deserve more than this. . .
A life partner you can trust for starters.
Hugs