Thank you for sharing JS because I was going to post that choosing to stay with an alcoholic partner has consequences too. In my line of work, I have seen many people who did not drink or used end up homeless because they stayed with an addicted partner and many women have been arrested because of their drug dealing bf.
At the end, we all have to pay the piper and the main question whether it is about our drinking or the people we chose to be with should be:
Is it what I want in my life?