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sydneyman That's what scares me too, So this is it, sober and then what...no more pubs, parties etc...I think once we get past a few weeks this will not even be an issue to think about. I have friends who don't drink and always been to parties where I been. They have had a ball like everybody else...its re programming the brain not to associate fun=alcohol...
Absolutely! Now when I get together with friends, I am comfortable doing it sober and I don't want or miss alcohol. That wasn't true at first ... it took time and effort.
The first couple of months, the dinner hour was absolute hell. How was I supposed to cook dinner without opening a bottle of wine? A year later, I can honestly say I do not even think about it when I start to cook now ... the problem has been removed.