Matilda:
I've been trying to walk the honesty path for many years now. I have fallen off the wagon many times, depending on the situation. I've gotten myself in terrible binds at times by not being honest all along and feeling I need to back-pedal PDQ (pretty darn quick)...I think your true friends will understand if you are NOT always honest..but your true friends will ALSO understand when you ARE honest! Since I haven't always been honest 100% of the time, I totally understand when others aren't, so I try to give them a break! I was corrected on this once and it stuck!
So, just relax and be reassured that your true friends are maybe more forgiving and understanding than you know.
Still learning my lessons and i know I will continue to need to learn more...learning never ends!
What you decide to do about the winery will work out just fine, I think. Try not to get too stressed out about it.
