Hi, all:
Just an update on my earlier post about the event at the winery and what to do. Spoke to my partner and told him that I didn't think it was a good idea for me to sit in a winery--especially one of our favorites--for three hours. That my sobriety is too new and too fragile, especially this week. He said he thought I was probably right. We agreed that the most important thing is to carve out some time for ourselves this weekend, so we are going to go on a hike on Sunday with the dogs and take a picnic.
thanks again for the advice. I think I knew what I needed to do; saying it out loud and getting confirmation really helped.