Gonnachange

He's very fortunate that he has a lot of people in his corner and everyone hopes the same as what your wrote in your first sentence.

Yeah, the family stress isn't good for anyone and as I've written before I feel mostly for my inlaws. They are at a place in their lives where they should be able to fully enjoy their many years of hard work and sacrifice and while they have much joy from their other children and their respective spouses, and grandchildren much of that is overshadowed by my BIL's actions. It wasn't always that way, but the descent has accelerated the past 5-6 years.

Thanks. I'm doing what I can to make that happen.