Bim, not everyone at church is a family. Even if people who have families are there, not everyone is there with a partner. And I don't know what church you attend but marriage might be mentioned in passing but I've never seen it as the end goal of any service. I dunno what I'm getting at other than if you want to attend church, go and if one church doesn't work, try another one. Like AA meetings, each church has its own flavor and vibe.
Brynn, guess I'm in your shoes. Mr. Ruby decided that he's moving in with his sponsor in an attempt to string sober days together. He is out of town for work a lot. I'm pretty sure he stays sober while he's gone. Comes home and is out the door. So anyway, solidarity. Although Mr. Ruby will probably come back home at some point.
I'm at work, at my desk. But heading out soon. See you all later.