Originally Posted by
hopepraylove 
Thanx for that! I've seen this before, actually. I do agree with her that we date the unavailable person....
BUT, I could never ask my friends and family for advice. As a codependent, I have found that so many of my "close" friends and family don't actually really know ME. Too many of them would pick men for me that are far too docile and lack any artistic talent so that they don't outshine my own vocal talents. But in reality, I'd rather have a partner that can match my wit and my musical inclinations.
But boy howdy... Soooooo tired of the Peter Pans! She is on to something there and how it is like an "addiction"....
LOVE Ted talks, too, btw... So much good stuff!!!!