Thanks for the support y'all. And Ruby...this would've been much harder if kids were involved.
Sao....I feel a kindred spirit with Dizzee. She probably finds her men in bars like the rest of us. Blah! (and her tea making plight made me smile)
Brain....I've never cooked with coconut oil but I use it on my hair ....it's all the rage for hair and skin care. Try it on your 'do' ....maybe you'll live longer and you won't waste a perfectly good tub of oil!