Originally Posted by
steve11694 
FeelingGreat,
.... the problems she's having (financial, family, friends) is the alcohol talking and not the nice person inside. She did not get enraged but understood and did not disagree.
You're codependency is playing games with you. She is not two separate beings. The mess she has created of her life and the nice woman are two sides of the same person. It's not something that you can change.