Very glad that you made it through, GoesWithThe Flow, and that you are your GF are now on the same page.
As others have pointed out, Normies don't get it (or how very fortunate they are that they don't). It is very wise of you to want to avoid triggering places and situations, especially in the early days. Bottom line, though, is that it is ultimately up to us to garner the strength to continue to say no to alcohol no matter the place or situation.
Glad you enjoyed the show.