Originally Posted by
Refiner 
I have followed your journey, Katchie. The words "you won" don't do it, but the words "you're free" do!
Thank you for that perspective that had escaped me!!! I am free! Free to discover who the heck I am now because I really don't know. Sometimes I think that is a sad state of affairs, but then I also think, what an adventure that awaits! I'm embracing that, I'm moving forward small steps at a time. Some days I don't feel it in me to do a darn thing, other days a fire is lit under my butt..lol. I'm just taking things one day at a time and really trying to practice what I've heard so many of you say, 'be gentle with yourself'. I have so much to learn!