Originally Posted by biminiblue

What do you mean, "The right thing?"

The right thing according to you, him, his family, your therapist, the posters in this thread?

The only one who can decide is you.

I believe you decided when you posted the first post in this thread, and now you want someone to validate you.

There is no way in Hades anyone will recommend, "Oh, honey, stayyyyyyyy," except him and his family. I don't think their opinions should really count, because if he was doing the right thing(s) for your relationship this would not have become an issue.

You already know what is best.