Originally Posted by
mhns 
Thanks for the replies. I guess my thought is if I keep giving him money, albeit I do owe it to him. It just gives him more money to continue to drink every single day. Which is what he is doing. Sigh. So confused.
I understand what you're saying...I felt the same too at one point, but after 6 months of al anon I'm realizing..You can't stop him from drinking. Whether or not you give him the money, he will find resources regardless to get a bottle.
Give him the money and run.