My lawyers appt is end of the week. I'm hoping he'll talk, and be somewhat cooperative. I get the vibs, he doesn't think I'm serious. I've never threatened to leave him. Every time he gets drunk he threatens to divorce me, even saying he's seen an attorney, and I'll be given 2 options, and that he's had a private detective follow me. Crazy stuff!!! I'm not thinking divorce, I just can't take the drinking and abusive behavior every night. I know he can't stop, so he needs to leave. Hope that makes sense. Trying to validate it in my head.