Hi sinderos
I dunno about you but I drank for decades...it's gonna take a little time for your mind and body to heal properly...it won;t take years tho, I promise
I like the suggestion about not making any big changes too soon after getting sober, simply because I didn't know who sober me was for a while, much less what he wanted.
I started to get a clue about 90 days in.
Obviously sometimes we have to make changes...but if you can stick it out for a while, I'd do that. You may feel differently a month or two down the track.
This is not as good as it gets - it gets better - hang in there
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