My ah called me again all kinds of names, to include how unattractive I am, and he could have any woman he wanted.
I'm worried about this young man being with my ah.
while your concern for the young man is commendable, do you see how you deflected the verbal abuse YOU suffered and instead mentioned concern for this young man being with your AH?
this "kid" is close to 30 years old, he can handle himself. you have no control over what your AH does or who he does it with.
focus on you now. on getting away from such a monster.