There's little I can do ...
In support of all that's been said on this thread to date I'd add that there's little I can do about external events, that play a part in all our lives, drunk or sober.
Alternatively, there's a lot I can do about internal events e.g. my state of mind involving my perception of myself and the world around me to bring about the changes necessary to enable me to live a peaceful, sober, happy existence.
As the problem, whether you're one of those addicted to alcohol or you suffer from the illness/disease of alcoholism, centers in the mind. The obvious place to bring about those changes lies therein.
Supported by Marcus Aurelius in his book,'Meditations' saying,
' If you are distressed by anything external the pain is not due to the thing itself but your estimate of it and this you have the power to evoke at any moment.'
Change your perception, change your life!