11 days is an awesome accomplishment, great start !
Many quit with a drinking loved one or spouse under the same roof. It can be done, sounds like you are determined - good for you.
Have you ever considered an outside support group of some sort?? It helped / helps me to be face to face with others in recovery along with SR.
You're not alone - lot's of us old drunks on here to help each other!
Keep coming back, welcome