Originally Posted by
Rar 
Yes, I have. However, I have not asked him to avoid drinking in front of me. I feel at our ages, it's not fair to put the same restrictions on his life that I have to have in mine.
Is he an alcoholic? Does he know it is hard for you, and that it is potentially life threatening if you relapse bc of the diabetes? Can he move his drinking into a garage, or basement, or just in the other room where you dont have to see it?
Maybe I am just lucky that my wife offered to quit with me- although she hardly drinks so its not really quitting for her...