happybeingme....I am an ex smoker, so I know what you are talking about. I will be smoke free for a year on November 4th. He smokes also. I don't have the urge to pick up a cigarette whatsoever. I did mention to him how I have made concessions for his recovery but he hasn't with his smoking. I am not asking him to quit for me because other than the smell, it doesn't bother me. He smokes in his truck when I ride with him which seems inconsiderate because I don't drink around him. Not once has he asked or taken it upon himself to keep it away from me. Even though it is not necessary, because I don't want to smoke again, it would've been nice for him to at least show respect/consideration to begin with.