One more thing. If you are like me, you want your own relationship, not someone else's experience. The "we" thing always seemed like someone trying to speak for a group of others and that smacks in the light of humility.
If God can be seen by His character of difference and variety, why should I compare my journey to any other than His Own creation?
Search. Put no constraints on His sovereignty or Grace, and share your journey with others. Narrow is the gate...