I agree with Dee, find a new ritual that doesn't involve the wine bottle. It will also be good for you kids to see you pouring juice instead of something out of a wine bottle. Why not treat yourself to a nice, new pitcher and glass or cup that you use for your new non-alcoholic beverages? Sparkling water with a spitz of lemon or lime is also nice, adding some fresh mint is also tasty.
You CAN do this. It won't always be easy but it IS possible.