Dandy, they've said its more comfortable at their dads house. Of course it is, I remodeled it last year and its beautiful! Its 3400sqft compared to 1300 -- what's not to love! I would have stayed in the home and I know that would have made the difference in where the boys stayed, but I couldn't afford the house; they've practically grown up in the home. But, their dad is in early recovery and still a little crazy acting not to mention I know they still are not comfortable being around him unless there is something material they are wanting. My ex has always been good at buying them things.