Oh Katchie, I could have written your posts, right down to your parents. My beautiful, kind, fun loving step daughter, who I raised and love as my own, refuses to speak to me. It hurt beyond words!
Like your situation, my STBXAH was always the "good guy." Still is apparently. Ironically, the healthier I became, the more my SD "disowned" me! I have finally just given it all to God and have been finding peace.
Nothing about be married to an alcoholic is ever easy., not even in divorce.
