Well he is already in an inpatient treatment facility, by his own choosing. I just found out things were worse than I thought while he is in there. So yes clearly he's been lying and stealing and whatnot.
He is, on the other hand, a fabulous father to our kids. (I know that sounds weird) but he is. He plays ball with my son every night. He reads them bedtime stories, does bath time. He does A LOT. That's why I never would have imagined he was shooting heroin. He goes to work everyday, goes to school 2 nights a week, and the other nights he's home with us doing things together. It's just crazy. I'm still in shock.
I have the meeting with his counselor and him at 3:00 today. I'm so nervous, even just to see him. I don't know if I'll look at him the same or not. Right now I feel no emotion but anger towards him, but maybe I'll feel differently when I see him.