VikingGF-I hope you know what you are doing with that fruit and make sure it is ripe. According to the food blog, it is a poisonous fruit. Supposedly it takes a year for the fruit to ripen. If it is eaten unripe, it can cause blistering, itching, swelling and pain, and possibly death due to the levels of oxalic acid.
Forgivemeall-keep on hanging in there. The thing is if you stay sober, you can better deal with what your boys are doing. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs your way.
