Thanks FeelingGreat, I got up after I wrote my passage with the intention of just starting my son's favorite meal for having his first day of sixth grade. Which kinda snowballed into me straighten up my whole downstairs. Which I noticed ever since I started just settings small goals for the day I notice I always do way more than just the goals. I hve been telling myself it's only gonna just take a couple of minutes plus I like the way things look all nice and tidy. OMG!!!! My ex husband shocked me and sent me a pix of my booka boo that's the nickname I hve called him since birth. That really made me feel good bc it showed him in front of the school which means he is coming home today.