Originally Posted by
Beccybean 
Do you actually WANT him to come back? He sounds like hard work, and not the kind of person who is going to be conducive to you taking care of yourself in the way you need to do if you are co-dependent.
Let's save that question for another day. I am feeling guilty over drinking and calling him out on his lies instead of speaking with him rationally about it. Alcohol intensified my reaction.
Actually, I am too tired right now to think about the consequences if I spill the beans. I still have a lot of thinking to do. I keep questioning why he told me he was with a male friend helping him to move when he was actually with a woman helping her move, and yet I'm the one in the wrong because I blew up on him.
Reading the characteristics of co-dependency again. I have fallen right back to who I was before the year of counseling a long time ago. I have a lot of work to do. And then we'll see where it all ends.