Just sending hugs! I've heard the same thing from my ex (then husband for years and years). So sad isn't it. Your thinking is correct and it sounds like you have a firm grasp of what he's doing-and what you need to do. You are doing the absolute best thing you can do for your kids, although it may be the hardest thing to do at the same time. I understand-I've been there. Sending you strength and peace
